We had to be at the surgery center at 12:10 and everything worked like clockwork. We were taken back to our own room where they had a basketball hoop, pickup trucks, a rocking horse, etc... Andrew had no clue what was going on! He was too amused with all the new toys (and the fact that the nurse promised him an orange popsicle after he was done!). I got to take him back to the surgery room and stayed with him until he fell asleep. I held his hand as he breathed in the mask and the nurses and anesthesiologist were so wonderful! They made him think he was blowing up a big balloon. Just before he went under he struggled a little bit and then was out like a light!
I, of course, left the room with tears streaming down my face. My little baby, laying on this big table in the middle of a huge sterile bright white room just overwhelmed me! I knew this was routine, circumcisions are done every day and there was nothing to worry about, but still! That was my baby in there! About 45 mins later the doctor came in and said he was doing great, all went well and we need to follow up in 4 weeks. Have I mentioned how impressed I was with this whole thing? I was... really, really was. Heck, they took him back to surgery 10 mins BEFORE his scheduled time. When does that ever happen??
Andrew came into recovery and snuggled with Keith while he drank his apple juice and ate his popsicle. He wasn't too happy to see me since I was the one that took him in that other room, but it was okay. Once I asked him if he wanted french fries and chicken nuggets we became fast friends. :-) We were allowed to leave about an hour later and headed straight to Wendy's. Keith and I hadn't eaten anything either because we couldn't eat in front of Andrew! I was dying!!
The doctor gave us a prescription for tylenol with codeine. As much as I knew that medicine was to keep my little guy from hurting, I was secretly thankful to have the medication to keep him still for as many days as possible since the dr said no jumping, running, etc... for 5 days. 5 days keeping a 3 year old immobile. Cake, right? I knew that the tylenol with codeine would be my saving grace those first 48 hours until.......................... I realized the codeine made my child hyper. Can a girl not get a break??
Andrew was all over the place. One of the hardest parts was trying to get him to understand that he wasn't able to stand on his own since the coddle (not sure if that's spelled right, but apparently it's like a mini-epidural) hadn't worn off. It took both Keith and I to watch after him those first few hours. And to think... I was so looking forward to sitting and snuggling with my little guy.
Despite bouncing off walls, Andrew was as affectionate as he's ever been. He'd be playing with his train, come over and said "I need a kiss", get his kiss and head back to his train. Or he'd be playing with his frying pan, turn, run over and grab me, say "I love you" and then back to "cooking". It was so, so cute.
One funny... soon after we got home we had to explain to Andrew that his peetkah (Russian for boy's body part) had a boo-boo because he was ready to just monkey around with Keith. Well, we take him into the bathroom to go potty and he yells out "Hey!! I'm going pee-pee with my new peetkah!!". He was so excited and so proud! :-)
So, anyhow, I spent Wednesday - Sunday home with Andrew and, to be honest, I wasn't sure how we'd do. We couldn't do any of our normal outings - McD's play area, monkey joes, etc... I didn't know if we would survive being in the house, not running and just "chilling out" because I don't think three year olds know how to chill. Let me just tell you - we had an awesome five days. For the first time since we've been home, I felt "in control". Hmm... that probably requires more explanation, huh?
For the first time since being home with Andrew, I didn't feel like I needed Keith to walk in the door at 5:00 and save me. I didn't feel like every temper tantrum ruined my entire day. I was able to discipline him and he listened to me without me having to blow my stack. I didn't need Keith to put him down for his nap because he wouldn't listen to me - he went willingly. I didn't need to leave the house to have fun with my son... we had fun just hanging out. That's not to say we didn't have our "moments" but those moments were few and far between and we overcame them rather quickly. All in all, it was a very successful five days. I'm going to miss the kiddo tomorrow!
Oh... one more funny... Since I was the one taken Andrew back to the surgery room, I had to wear a gown and cap. I had gotten Andrew changed into his and I turned to Keith and said "I don't understand why I need to put this on and tie it in the back and show the world my butt!" Keith says "Ummm... Beck? You put it on OVER your clothes." :-) He followed that up with "You need to put that on your blog". :-) Yep - I was about to get naked.
On that note, I'll leave you with some pictures of our trip to Children's. I should mention that Andrew is doing great and only held off jumping, bumping, bouncing and straddling for about 24 hours. :-)
In the waiting room.... reading a book with dad!
19 comments:
Aww, I am so glad that everything went well with his surgery! I CRACKED UP when I read about the hospital gown... but Keith's comment was even more funny! lol! I'm glad that you've had a good days with your little guy. :-)
Oh Becky I bring parents into the OR all the time and I have never had anyone other then the patient be naked.
That is so funny.
Joy
LOL!! That is hilarious. I remember all too well that whole experience a year ago. Of course ours was a little more involved, but the rooms, the little gowns for the kids, the toys, and especially the emotions are all the same. Sounds like you had a mini breakthrough too which is awesome. Its great when they learn that every moment doesn't have to be filled with activities isn't it!
Glad all went well and you had a good 5 days.
Soo glad everything went well. Glad you guys got to spend the rest of the week together. Some great bonding time. You now know why Grandpa and Nana love to spend the day with Andrew...And we never step foot outside the house (except when Andrew wants to dis-assemble our Gazebo). Hate when it's time for you to take him home! Most say that's the best part of being a grandparent..you get to send them home...I think that's the saddest part of the day.
Grandpa & Nana
beck...GREAT to see you FINALLY figured out that you don,t have to run him 24/7...HOORAY for you!!! Now...remember it and STICK TO IT!!!! He's a good, little boy and you guys are VERY lucky to have him!! Love you, DAD
Glad to hear that Andrew is recovering. We are going to be having the same surgery in a few months. I remember when Bubby had his done, it was so funny to see him all drugged up; he was like a drunken sailor.
I love what you will do for your son, get naked and put a gown on when you don't have to. That's a dedicated mom!
I'm so glad that Andrew's surgery went so well. Poor little guy. At least they did a wonderful job keeping him occupied and his mind on other things. I'm glad that you had some nice one on one time after surgery too. I just love when my kiddos are especially cuddly!
You had me in stitches about the gown. Glad to hear Andrew is such a trooper.
From reading the other comments I couldn't help but notice you guys are so BLESSED that Andrew's Grandpa and Nana love him so much and enjoy spending time with him. (Lexi is my mom's 18th grandchild. She loves her bunches, but the novelty has worn off. ;0)
And I totally agree with Amy. Any mom who is willing to sport a hospital gown in her birthday suit for her son should be named Mom of the Year!
Hi Becky,
I am glad that Andrew is healing well and handled the surgery easily!
I am happy for the two of you that you had a great time chilling out at home. What a novel idea just to chill out with your toddler (when they will let you do that!)
Heres to a speedy recovery!
Adrian
Hi Becky,
I am so glad that Andrew's surgery went well. It sounds like you had a great few days home with him!!!
That is hysterical about the hospital gown!!
I'm glad Andrew is doing better. Never a fun surgey! I also started crying when I came out of the operating room after I left Kaden. It was such a long wait until teh surgery was done. I hope we don't have to do that for a long time.
Glad he did great and that you enjoyed your 5 days together! Funny how they can surprise you!!
Great to hear Andrew did so well.
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Cade had the same reaction to codeine~ ACK!
oh no- hyper from codiene! That's terrible! VERY cute photo's. Found you from winding road blog. I have a daughter from a disrupted adoption with attachment issues, among others. Sounds like you may have turned a corner- cool!
Hey- Nothing like a new peetkah. Give him a kiss from us
I'm cracking up about you putting the gown on! Classic blonde moment.
I'm glad to hear Andrew's surgery went well and loved the comment about the new pektah!
Oh, I remember that time with Alex. Taking the bandage off was the WORST because it was stuck, so it started bleeding again. And I know EXACTLY how you feel about needing an escape at 5pm and the wonderful feelings when you don't.
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